
Today I had my first doctor appointment in Texas. It had been almost a month since my last appointment in South Dakota so I was anxious to see how things were going. The first part was the dreaded scale. Since we have been traveling I hadn't seen a scale for almost a month. Let's just say that I have never weighed this much before and leave it at that. During my exam I was measured, and told that I was measuring big. I was sent to get a round of lab work done and was told that most likely they will have to take the baby a couple of weeks early because of his size. Normally a pregnant woman would be thrilled to be done a couple of weeks early, but we are trying to keep this kiddo in up to his due date so that we can move in to our house and actually have baby stuff ready. Everything is in storage right now. Not the best news, but other than that everything else looks good. While I was waiting in the lab, several people asked me when I was due. When I told them that I had five more weeks to go people looked shocked and couldn't believe that I had that much more to go. Then I was asked if I was having a boy or a girl. When I replied that I was having my third boy, some people said they were sorry that I wasn't having a girl. I told them I wasn't. That shocked me. A little girl asked me how the baby got in my tummy, and I wasn't sure how to answer that so I told her to ask her mom. On my way out of the hospital while I was waiting for an elevator a man asked me if I was having twins. By this time I was sick of people asking me weird questions about my size so I told him no, I'm just really big. He didn't seem to think that his question was inappropriate.
To sum up here is a list of questions not to ask a pregnant woman:
1.How did that baby get in your tummy?
2. When are you due? (normally ok, but don't look shocked when she tells you when.)
3. Are you having a boy or a girl? (again normally ok, but don't feel sorry for the poor woman if it isn't what you think she wanted. She might actually be happy with what she is getting!)
4.Are you having twins? (it just makes the woman feel fat!)
5. this isn't a question, because strangers never ask, but don't rub a woman's belly under any circumstance unless she says it is ok.